2hotwives - a girl's guide to unconventional sex by Ams & Kat

In this episode, Ams and Kat report back on their sexy homework with Femme Domme power play. 

In this episode, Ams and Kat take control in the bedroom by exploring domination, including an interview with professional Dominatrix, Queen Lo.  

How did the Wives do with their sexy pornography homework?  Tune in to find out. 

In this episode, Ams and Kat explore Pornography, focusing on ethical porn and feminist porn.  

How did the Wives do with their Tantric Sex homework?  Tune in to find out. 

In this episode, Ams and Kat explore Tantric Sex. 

How did the Wives do with their Boudoir photography sexy homework?  Tune in to find out. 

Do you need to be "hot" to be successful in the lifestyle? In this episode, the Wives explore aesthetics and attraction in ENM relationships, including an interview with Coach April from Naughty Gym.  

In this episode, Ams and Kat explore Boudoir Photography. 

How easy is it to line up a threesome as a unicorn?  How about going to a sex club as a solo woman? How did Ams and Kat do on their sexy homework for Unicorn Threesomes?  Tune in to find out. 

In this episode, Ams and Kat explore Unicorn Threesomes.  Unicorns, you say?  But unicorns are single women in the lifestyle and the 2HotWives are…wives!  Well, even though Ams and Kat are not unicorns, they can still be "guest stars" in a threesome.

How did the Wives come up with "Use Your Words" and do they follow their own advice? 

Which story was Kat's lie? 

Did the 2HotWives break up?  Did they get divorced?  Maybe they set sail on the Bliss cruise and never returned???

TRIGGER WARNING: This episode and article discusses consensual non-consent. Consensual non-consent, or rape play, involves consenting adults pretending not to consent to sexual activities, and may be triggering to some people, especially survivors of sexual assault. Please use your discretion as to whether or not this content is right for you.

TRIGGER WARNING: This episode and article discusses consensual non-consent. Consensual non-consent, or rape play, involves consenting adults pretending not to consent to sexual activities, and may be triggering to some people, especially survivors of sexual assault. Please use your discretion as to whether or not this content is right for you.

Time to check in with the Wives on their Exhibitionism homework! 

Are you an exhibitionist? Exhibitionism is a sexual kink in which a person feels sexual arousal at the idea or reality of being seen naked or engaged in sexual activities by others.  Consensual exhibitionism means that all people, watchers and participants, are enthusiastically consenting to the experience, and that's the kink this episode focuses on. 

Time to check in with the Wives on their sexy homework from the book, Come as You Are, and the companion Workbook. 

Are you ready to unlock the mysteries of female sexuality? Come As You Are is a must-read for all vulva-owners and the partners who want to please them. In this episode, the Wives interview author Emily Nagoski on how her can help all women maximize their capacity for pleasure. 

Get ready for the hottest homework of this season!

Bondage: what was once considered a taboo, dangerous kink is now a commonplace sex act that you can find in many a suburban bedroom.  But is restraint play for you?  Tune in to find out.  

Were the Wives able to tap into some sexy pole dancing energy?  Tune into Part 2 to find out!

In the last 20 years, pole dancing has become a mainstream fitness phenomenon and an excellent way for women to get in touch with their femininity and sensuality. If you are curious about whether pole dancing might be a fun activity to explore, this episode is a must listen!  

First, start with the episode's cocktail, the Blackberry Peach Fizz while Kat updates us on her sexy play time with a single guy.  If you dig a little upscale restraint play, this hot tale is for you. 

If you and your partner enjoy recreational sex and emotional intimacy, you might be Swolly!

Did the 2HotWives succeed with their sexy homework on squirting?  Tune in to Squirting Part 2 to find out.  First, start with a pitcher of the episode's cocktail, Strawberry Mango Sangria.  We suggest that you make it a day ahead to let the fruits infuse their flavor. Then, Kat recalls a particularly juicy hot tale while on the Bliss Cruise: a MFM threesome.  

What's the big deal about squirting?  Is it the same thing as female ejaculation? Does it always happen during orgasm?  Can every woman squirt? Is squirt just pee?  If someone gushes or dribbles, is that still considered squirting?  What's squirt made up of anyway?  The Wives answer these questions and more, including an interview with Lola Jean, the Squirting Queen.

Should I keep my fantasies in my head or should we actually play them out?  2HotWives answer all your burning questions.  In this episode, Ams and Kat take a deep dive into some of the topics that have been on your mind. The wives answer questions that cover lifestyle takeovers and clothing optional vacations, what atracts us to potential play partners and the chalenges that arise from being intimate with a close friend. 

If you are single, the lifestyle (or swinging) may seem out of reach. For women, being a unicorn is as rare as the name implies.  That can mean too much attention from interested couples, plus it is hard to connect beyond the occasional sexual encounter.  It's even harder for single men who are treated as a dime-a-dozen.    One option? F*ck Buddies! More and more, single people are getting together to go on lifestyle dates and sexually open events. Their relationship is casual and fun, but that doesn't mean everything goes ("of course there are still RULES" says Ams).   In this episode, the Wives discuss the F*ck Buddy option and why it might work for you, including an interview with Midlife Craving host Adrienne Hollister. 

When the 2HotWives talk about house parties, it's a 50 person, women-centric play party!  Are you curious about attending a house party?  Have you been invited to one and wonder what to expect? How should you behave at a house party and how can you host a killer party in your own home?  In this episode, the Wives take a second look at house parties and share advice (and some sexy stories) on what to expect, how to act, and how to host.  Are you a member of the 2HotWives community?  Then you can access bonus content, including a write up of all the tips in this episode. Check out www.2hotwives.com and join our mailing list for access to all bonus content.  It's completely free!

Sick of winter?  It's time to start planning a warm weather, adults-only vacation!

Are you going to an adult theme party? Or maybe you want to host a house-party with a fun and sexy theme? Theme parties are an amazing way to have fun and explore a sexier, fantasy version of yourself.  But choose the wrong costume…or the wrong theme, and your steamy night could end in disaster! The Wives explore all the dos and don'ts for attending a sexy, adult theme party, including which themes to explore, which themes to avoid and where to find the best costumes.

An adult themed, couples-only cruise is the ultimate party and playground for open-minded adults. If you want to hook up, there are plenty of shipmates ready to help you fulfill your fantasies, whether mild or wild

If you are looking for a sexy vacation, a swinger cruise might be for you.  An adult-themed, couples-only cruise is the ultimate party and playground for open-minded adults. If you want to hook up, there are plenty of shipmates ready to help you fulfill your fantasies, whether mild or wild. In this episode, the Wives explore the basics you need to know before booking a swingers' cruise. First, before you start your New Year's Resolutions, indulge in the The Dirty Snowman, a very boozy milkshake, while listening to this episode's Hot Tale.  Ams attends a low key house party and gets a little action without taking off her boots (or putting down her drink)!

First, check out Kat's latest cocktail: the Ginger Martini.  If you find yourself stuck in the kitchen during this holiday season, why not take some time to make your own ginger-infused vodka while listening to Kat's Hot Tale: A unicorn threesome gets downright silly with the addition of Giggly Bears...

Cannabis can make for a better sexual experience.  It's science!

Are you ready to get the inside scoop on a public dungeon experience?  The Wives report back on their sexy homework, including attending a dungeon newbie night and an EDM and play party. 

Is a BDSM dungeon on your sexual bucket list? You might be surprised about how actual dungeons operate. In this episode, the Wives explore public BDSM dungeons, including an interview with Dungeon East owner Mistress Justine Cross. 

Let's put hotwifing to bed, together. 

Are the 2HotWives actually hotwives?  The answer is not so simple.  In this episode, the Wives explore the kink known as hotwifing. 

We know you aren't ready for summer to end, so mix up a batch of Watermelon Margaritas while listening to a super-sexy Hot Tale!  Kat makes an immediate connection with a sexy cowboy at Desire and the sparks fly when she tries a new kind of pole dancing (...did I see a Groupon for that?)

Are you ready to lay back, relax and get touched ALL OVER? Erotic massage is a fantastic way get into a sexy mindset, amp up foreplay and reach new orgasmic heights. 

Next, Kat gives Mr. Kat the ultimate fantasy experience, a unicorn threesome.

The 2HotWives put the fun in fundamentals with the sexy self-help book, The Ultimate Guide to Seduction and Foreplay. 

Next Ams shares the ups and downs of fitting ass training into a suburban MILF's busy schedule (Ams, did you wear a butt plug to book club???) but after a false start, anal sex leads to "a whole new world" of pleasure. 

Are you curious about anal play but too afraid to explore it?  Never fear, the 2HotWives are ready to dive into all of those questions about "butt stuff" that you were too scared to ask.  Let's start by mixing up tonight's cocktail, the the Basil Cherry Smash, while Ams shares her hot tale, a house party reboot (take two and three). 

In this final bonus episode before the Wives launch Season 2, we have a little PCAP RECAP, complete with Hot Tales and all the deets on their live seminar: Just the Tips!  Five Tips for a Woman to Turbocharge her pleasure on a playdate.  First, Hot Tales, Podcast a Palooza edition: Ams and Mr. Ams make a new connection at the topless pool party, while Kat and Mr. Kat heat up the penthouse with some naughty Jenga. 

So much for a break! In this second installment of bonus content, the Wives share Hot Tales, answer a listener question and interview the smart and sexy Mallory from Casual Swinger. 

The Wives record bonus content while taking a little time off in Mexico!  Hear about their (mostly) vanilla vacation to Cancun, answers to hot topic listener questions and drop-in interviews with the sexy Ladies of PCAP!

It's the episode you've all been waiting for. 

Women spend hundreds of dollars on potions and pills to feel and look better, when all we really need to do is masturbate and wear sunscreen!

We interrupt our regularly scheduled program to bring you a very special episode of...the 2HotWives.  

There is a lot of fear and misconceptions about impact play: mainly, that it's all about pain and humiliation. In reality, impact play isn't one-size fits all. The Wives tackle this issue, top and bottom, discussing some impact play basics and interviewing Kink Expert and professional dominatrix Kimi Inch. 

Read any good books lately??? If not, you are missing out!  Erotica is a great way to explore your fantasies and get into a sexy-mind set. 

Are you dreaming of a sexy vacation in 2021?  Take a tip from the 2HotWives and plan your own Sex Vacation! The Wives turned a cancelled trip to Desire All-Inclusive Resorts into the perfect opportunity to create their own sexy vacation: a relaxing, steamy, six-day sex romp in St. Thomas! 

2020 wasn't the year that any of us expected or wanted: we all watched our grand plans for vacations, family gatherings and sex parties get cancelled one by one. But even though large get-togethers and vacations may not be an option right now, that doesn't mean that you can't make connections and have amazing sex. And, let's face it, we need real, authentic connections now more than ever.  

Are you curious about swinger House Parties? House parties are smallish private gatherings where sexy play time is welcomed, but not mandatory. A House Party may seem like the perfect, "Goldilocks" option between a couple's date and a huge swinger-event, but navigating these smaller group, casual settings can be tricky.  In this episode, the Wives discuss their sexy experiences at House Parties and give their Just the Tips so you can show up and show off with confidence. 

The 2HotWives take sexy dress up to a whole new level with some good old-fashioned role play! If you want to mix things up with your partner and explore some of your craziest sexual fantasies in a low-risk, low-stakes way, there is nothing better than setting up a role play. 

Do you want to have better sex? Keep it playful, and a fantastic way to keep sex playful is by improving your "dress up" game.  Whether you want to spice things up with your partner, look amazing (and be comfortable!) on a double date, or slay at a sexy lifestyle event, the 2 Hot Wives share tips and tricks on how to dress sexy and confidently.

It's play time! Ams and Kat share intimate details about their recent separate play encounters and go back in time to dish about their early experiences with couples play dates. They also share the perspectives of some of their closest friends in open marriages.  You'll learn everything you need to know to get ready for a couples play date, from grooming tips to setting boundaries. Learn how to establish and follow the rules...and when to throw those rules out the window and have some fucking fun!

The 2HotWives head to their local adult boutique for some sexy retail therapy where they purchase the latest in clitoral stimulators.  Every hot wife needs at least one of these in her bedside table. 

The 2HotWives know how to start a swinging relationship off on the right foot. In this episode, Ams & Kat dish about their early experiences in the lifestyle dating scene and share killer first date advice so you can avoid newbie mistakes. You only get one chance to make a first impression!

We want to share our adventures in the exciting world of unconventional sex. We are both deeply committed wives and mothers.  We are also homeowners, business owners, SUV owners, pet owners.. Your typical suburbanite MILFS.  But go behind closed doors, you'll discover we are both in open marriages.