about relationships by Bhekuzulu Khumalo

Don't need charms send roses, you are the magic not some outside force, people are killing at distance, the dream of wizards of old.

It is not easy to change a culture of trauma because often people adopt to it and accept it as normal. Often one group of mystics replaces another group of mystics, well you see all the trauma around you, it is not as if it has been the same groups running the show for ever and ever, it is just the same trauma.

One’s outlook in life is based on the reality they see around them. Refusing evidence is one of the key reasons why there is trauma on this planet. If one refuses evidence in front of them it means they know the reality will burst their bubble about themselves. They must deny these realities and depend on trauma, most conflicts are just about people refusing to accept the evidence in front of them and fudging it to suite them. Once humans accept evidence in front of them, they are existing by the rules of the universe, everything is in a relationship that need energy to maintain.

Most trauma in society is caused by denying that everything is in a relationship, that those relationships need energy to maintain and they are all random. They give themselves special positions that they use trauma to maintain and justify their causing of trauma on others that they are somehow enlightened, they walk with the light. The light they talk of is mystical, because we understand that all relationships are random because we studied the true light, the photon.

love itself can end up in action that is good or bad, the same as the concept of ubuntu. We end up with a yin and yang situation of Taoist philosophy. The golden rule anticipates this and says be respectful, if not love can lead to grand trauma.

From the very first human being to walk this planet, the scientific principle has been the human beings’ primary tool of survival. Food, humans knew not to eat poisonous plants, no amount of prayer, chanting or dancing up and down will change that fact, the plant will remain poisonous. The mystical stuff is for other things but eating a poisonous mushroom will kill you no matter what.  

To get energy to be involved in relationships and experience life, human beings need sustenance. This sustenance comes from food. The golden rule first and foremost must work at this level, getting sustenance for it to have any true value to human beings. The golden rule is about society, if different rules apply to different people in that society, it is not one society, it is about others robbing others and those doing the robbing call it society. Do unto others as you will have them do unto you, simple as that, if you don’t like to be robbed, don’t rob others.

Control of fire by humans being is the most influential tool humans have had throughout history. Without fire it would be impossible to know that everything is in a relations, that all these relationships take energy to maintain and they are all random.

Money is a tool for the exchange of knowledge, that is all, that is all it will ever be. Anything you can buy is a result of knowledge of that thing. We use knowledge to get food, shelter and clothing. Thus who is allowed to use their skills and knowledge determines the eating order of that society. One can never claim to be the best of anything of others had their skills and knowledge hindered, they wouldn’t need to cause this kind of trauma.

Knowledge has always been the primary resource of humans since the first human beings walked on this planet. How a society exploits this knowledge is according to cultural expectations, standards around knowledge should never be reduced to progress, who at the end of the day can claim to be enlightened, it always ends up as a hoax.

This world is full of trauma, one can say looking at human history it has been built by trauma. Just look at history, look at what is happening right now. It is about food, water and shelter at its basics, everything else is just superficial. Trauma begins with the child in the school system, a child learns their place. If a child is not allowed to fully recognize their potential, they are not part of that society but merely a slave to serve others who can reach their potential. For example, if a child is not allowed have an intellectual thought, business shuns their ideas but accepts same ideas from others, they are not part of that society simple, no matter the lies of all in it together, no matter how much taxes they pay as an adult, grow up. The ultimate enforcer of trauma is the government they have all the guns.