50shadesofsingle by Varun Singal
What is considered as a big cock? Do you think you qualify for big or are you obsessed with big?
What is it to be assaulted and does it always have to be physical or violent?
How was a hetero Punjabi Diwali for you growing up and what’s your earliest memory?
What would you say your first love is? A man, a hobby, a book, a pet, a parent?
Watching Dahmer on Netflix brought a lot to the surface especially in relation to sexual racism as a POC having lived in Australia and Germany.
Mirror mirror on the wall.
What is monogamy and what does it mean for you?
Do you know what are poppers? I’m sure you have heard of them and being new to them also means I wanna share with you live what it feels like. How do you use them and doesn’t it matter whether you’re a top or bottom?
Now we’ve all gawked at speedos and cock outlines growing up and did we have access to men around us? Here I talk about what it was like for me for, the first contact to losing my virginity to sex roles as default.
Queer people get to choose their own families or are they forced to. When it comes to families what is family and what strings are attached for tolerating your presence especially in Desi families. Do you agree with my views or how far are you willing to get accepted. Does it come with respect? And what about your partner or love life? Would they cheer the loudest at your wedding or you would be happy to accept whatever you’re getting?
How was it like for you to grow not only being socially outcast but also illegal for loving and fucking who you want. I talk about my experience here from being caught by the police as a teenager to coming back to Indian from exile in Australia to make a difference through Simply Yoga - India’s first LGBT yoga retreat in Goa that was shut down back in 2018 and here we are four years later celebrating it being struck out!
What does it mean to be a slut and when was the first time you heard that word?
What is it about? Why do it? Whom is it for? What do we talk about?
It’s all happening raw and uncut and let’s talk about sex and all the things about you and me. Let’s talk about all the bad things and the good things that may be.
